Hi I'm user KatLiu.
I'm in my 20's and yes, I'm nonbinary and flat chested - I was born a girl (two X chromosomes), never had a penis nor do I want one, and my main kinks are roleplay / bdsm / ddlg. I identify as submissive but am open to switching.
This isn't an ad, this is just for any other users who might want to chime in to confirm on.
One point of clarification since I ran out of time to edit- I do remember you @new_york_lover, I was thinking of someone with another, very similar username. Apologies for that - though my cutting is because I'm into self pain play /bloodplay, which I always discuss up front with any potential meetup, because I know it's very much alarming to anyone who isn't into hard bdsm like that.. but you sir, it was made aware to, as I would any other potential client 
Most of you guys are really vanilla and I wouldn't want people to think I just escaped an exploding building. Some people like to autoasphyxiate, I like to bleed a little bit, some people like to be vacuumed into a plastic sheet, some people sit in cakes, who cares. We like what we like.
In regards to what SWIM will or will not do, let's break down the numbers- 500 for two hours is where things start, for a lot of girls looking for something NSA or testing the waters with someone. Because SWIM is a student and has online classes each day of the week (@roger4445, use your head, schools haven't been in buildings for a while. If you took the time to read SWIMs profile you might know that SWIM is not in a physical school building and that SWIM studies online. Guys. If you're going to sh*t talk, be informed, just try reading a little bit and you'll get what you want I promise. Do your homework and learn how to act and you will have morning texts from everybody and their mother [if you're into that sort of thing])
It takes SA girls generally a lot of time to prepare physically, mentally, from waxing/shaving, doing their hair/nails/makeup, traveling from wherever they live, picking out sexy/cute outfits, taking time out of their schedule (a lot of us still have school and jobs - we can't get away for something as little as an hour all the time - messaging you and keeping schedule, treating you like a person, since a lot of you dont want things to feel transactional. You don't want someone pulling up looking and acting like a bum, right? On top of that is the actual sex, it's physical work and if we want both of us to feel like it's worth it, we do our best. Believe me, there is a difference between 300 head and 500 head, and you will feel it! Don't tell me you've never experienced a lazy bj vs an enthusiastic bj- you know you have, and SWIM knows you have.
The bare minimum asked by girls on SA really varies, and is factoring all of what SWIM just said into it, and there are only upcharges with very specific kinks or kinda risky stuff like bareback, or for additional time. That's really it- some people are happy paying 500, 600, 800, or 1k+ etc - because they've, 1, actually got the net worth to do that, and 2, they're happy paying quality over quantity. I know at the end of the day a nut is a nut for some people, but for those of you that prioritise value and consistency, you will see where those extra dollars take you. It's the smarter idea in the long run to have things set up enough where you are consistently receiving, and paying for AAA+ service- and- you're all going to hate me for saying this- but if things evolved to an allowance type thing between two people, it's getting AAA+ service pretty much 24/7, on demand, with none of the bullsh*t you don't want. No appointments necessary, short notice welcomed. Then a nut isnt a nut anymore, it's an experience you can have long term with someone and you can /still/ have girls on the side, if you can afford it. You /can/ have your cake and eat it too, just not everyone is going to accept the kind of cake you're offering.
Lastly, each girl has a different number in their head and different expectations of what will or wont be done in bed. If you aren't a match for what they're asking, and they won't haggle with you, which again- depends on if you're exceptional (ie, have a personality, be hot, be interesting, be respectful), just decline and move on. There's plenty of girls on SA, don't waste your time arguing with a random stranger.
It's the difference between what feels like fast food and what feels like it's Michelin Star rated. If you're going to be a consumer, why not be a smart one? Invest in quality sex.
For reference, I want to add for the folks that want to make a date the same day, nut, and be done with it - whatsyourprice.com is the place for that, because the MAX offer by default you can offer someone is 200usd. Sure, users can request more than 200, but the range of prices imply that no one is going above 200, pretty much ever. You can offer them lower than 50 bucks if you wanted to. You have to pay to unlock messaging, but one message is all it takes to set up a date and get your rocks off or whatever, so just make it count and you're made in the shade.
The only things you need to know about me on this forum are the same things I'll tell ya anywhere else - I'm direct, I'm honest, and while I'm firm on things, I'm not an asshole- but I'm also not dumb. You and I probably have the same high functioning personality disorder (we like jokes here) and I can very much see through charm and good looks, as well as any successful script (your cute dog or cat may just help get you that second date though!) I don't do this for a living- it'd be nice if I could live my life just being one person's long term sex toy while saving up and living my best life. But, as @roger4445 noted, I clearly am very unrealistic (more jokes). In all seriousness, it helps me invest into my pet projects, stock market portfolio, my savings, the causes I donate to, and helps me not tank and fall behind in school payments. Aside, I get to network and meet some really interesting, and some genuinely good hearted people. Why any girls on SA use the site for main/side income is for the same reasons everyone needs an income- to survive, to expand, to indulge, to invest, to enjoy life- everyone has their own thing.
I don't take for granted the hard work any of you men have to do in order to /make/ that money- I understand work is work and it takes people decades sometimes to be in a position to be an SD of any caliber. I won't sh*t on you for not being a millionaire- I'm certainly not one- but if you have a really sh*tty attitude, then yes- I'll still decline your offer, but I will laugh while doing it behind the screen. It's about poise, learn to have it and you can have anything in this world. Try it! You might find that it works really well for you.
Feel free to ask any questions or drop a comment in the replies, I'd love to keep this going.
